There was a few elephants tied with small ropes in their front legs. A man was passing by and was amazed at the fact that the elephants were not breaking off the ropes to get free themselves which they easily could do.
He waited for some time and saw a trainer preparing food for the elephants. He asked him for the reason behind such an obedient nature of the elephants. At this trainer told him that, we use same size of rope to tie an elephant when it is very young and small in size. Then they tries to break off the rope with great efforts. But they could not succeed and one day give up by losing hope. And they have the believe in their mind that they can never break off the rope and even do not try to do so.
In our life we have many unseen rope tied to us. We had believed or conditioned that we can’t break off the bond or rope to do certain things.